I hated it because of what was said to me: G et out! Was the nicest version. But I hated using the women’s room and not just because of being a boy. Grunge and androgyny were reasonably widespread, even in the sticks of Maine. And I wore the same t-shirts and jeans and flannel shirts and sneakers that I always wore.ĭown that hallway, I thought, which one? Easy enough to just go in the women’s room, give people a dirty look when they scowled at me. They’d been calling me Al for years, so I didn’t have to tell them that I’d changed my name from Alice to Alex. My short hair hadn’t been mentioned - I’d had it short third grade through seventh grade, after all, only growing it out at my mom’s insistence.
Afterwards, debating Denny’s versus Friendly’s, we veered down the hallway toward the movie theater’s bathrooms. We went to the movies, five of us crammed into someone’s mom’s sedan. And also because now at 17 I was, for the first time in my life, a boy. And, for me, because though I had known these boys since preschool, I had gone away every September for the last four years to a prep school. Second, because none of us owned a car and the nearest movie theater was 40 minutes from our rural Maine town. First, because we all worked odd jobs with odd hours. I’d been back in my hometown for a week or so, and a bunch of us decided to go to the movies together. Home for the summer from boarding school, that awkward and potent summer between high school and college, I was working as a dishwasher. I’d been living as a guy for about a year. The first time I used a men’s room with friends - friends who’d known me from before, friends who’d known me my whole life - I was a few weeks shy of my eighteenth birthday. And maybe they were washing their hands when I was leaving, and that’s why I’m thinking I probably didn’t wash my hands. Both at the urinals, and so their backs were toward me when I entered. I do remember that there were other men in the room. I can’t remember if I washed my hands or not. I made a beeline for the stalls, which were the same as the stalls in every women’s room I’d ever used in my first 17 years of life. In fact, I didn’t see most of it as I walked in, head down and turned slightly away from the line of urinals. I looked about 14, probably, with my hair freshly cut short, my head still feeling light and buoyant after getting rid of the ponytail I’d carried through most of high school. If you have any knowledge about the whereabouts of this girl and her mother, contact your local CPS.The first time I used a men’s room, I was 17 years old. “F**king great, I love living in the ghetto.” The only clue we have is the following dialogue between the daughter and her mother: But as to her whereabouts to get her the help she so obviously needs, nobody seems to know. The mom continues to film and jeer her daughter on.Īs one can surmise, this girl is probably exposed to this sort of language and violence on a regular basis. Read below for the original story.Ī mother tells her daughter, “Show us how you play babies.” The girl then starts to beat the toy, saying, “Get your life together you f**king baby whore.” The video was shared on Reddit and continues on in a similar vein for two and half minutes, with the child ranting and abusing her doll. The video was allegedly reported to authorities, but they took no action because no laws were broken.
EDT: A source has contacted Heavy claiming that she knows who the woman is and that she lives in St. Disturbing video of six year old "playing" with her doll from dick nixon on Vimeo.